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More Love, Less Contempt | Arthur C. Brooks
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Arthur C. Brooks teaches that the problem in today’s society is contempt, and contempt can only be solved with love.
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Alright, so contempt is an interesting facial expression. It’s registered on the face with an asymmetrical smile. Contempt is when you take the moral high ground, or when you think you’re better than the other person. A lot of research by John Gottman has indicated that, you know, contempt is the number one nonverbal indication of a failing relationship. Because basically what it means is it feels like you put yourself on the higher ground than your significant other, essentially they’re not your significant other. It’s registered in terms of micro expressions, or facial expressions, by a slight asymmetrical smile, so like uh, it’s like basically alright. There’s also nonverbals of contempt, they would be like an eye roll, or like, what is this guy talking about, are you stupid? They’re just contemptuous signs.
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Contempt In A Relationship: 10 Tips To Eliminate It
Anytime there is contempt in a relationship, that is never a good sign you are headed down the right path.
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Although it is difficult to heal contempt for your significant other, it is even more devastating to have that feeling in the first place.
In order to heal contempt, it is critical to learn how to understand, truly forgive, and move forward in the relationship.
Although the definition of contempt varies for each individual, it has to do with feeling that your significant other is not worth consideration.
It is when you feel anger or resentment towards your significant other, resulting in feeling a sense of worthlessness towards them.
Sometimes having a feeling of indifference is common as well, where you don’t really care either way about their feelings.
In order to stop contempt in a relationship, you have to understand your significant other more.
You have to learn how to build empathy for your other half so the negative feelings subside, and you are able to have a relationship where you don’t feel so hostile or numb towards the other person.
Here are 10 steps that will drastically reduce contempt in a relationship:
1. Find alternative perspectives; create other meanings
2. Don’t overthink
3. Own your responsibility
4. Be curious and ask questions
5. Forgive; put things behind you
6. Give the benefit of the doubt; believe in goodintentions
7. Stop waiting and start doing
8. Expressing feelings without frustration
9. Identify positives in your relationship
10. Participate in marriage coaching to get a 3rd party perspective
Holding onto contempt will only result in the eventual destruction of your relationship.
Feeling contempt creates toxicity and negative feelings, which is not healthy for you, your partner, and your relationship.
In order to move forward, you must let go of past interactions and negativity. You must let go the negative meanings and associations you have ascribed to your significant other, and replace them with more positive ones.
This will eventually heal the contempt and create more empathy and understanding, which ultimately creates a happier and healthier relationship.
Howard Zinn and the Book That Poisoned a Generation
One book and one author have changed how American history is taught. America is no longer the good guy but the cause of everyone’s problems. Who is the author? What is the book? And why has it become so popular?
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The writer of the most popular and influential history book of the last quartercentury was a radical, leftist professor who despised his subject.
The writer’s name is Howard Zinn.
And his subject is America.
Zinn died in 2010, but his toxic theme lives on: America is and has always been a cesspool of racism, imperialism, and capitalist exploitation.
You may never have heard of Zinn, but I assure you a history teacher at your local high school or college has. And probably teaches his text or ideas.
The book Zinn wrote is entitled A People’s History of the United States.
If you’re trying to understand why so many young people lack patriotism—or worse, regard America with contempt—you don’t have to look much further than Zinn.
Columbus was evil?
Lincoln wasn’t really interested in freeing the slaves?
The Allies weren’t any better than the Nazis and the Japanese in World War II?
The Vietnam War was not about stopping the spread of communism, but about promoting American imperialism?
Zinn.
How do you take an essentially decent country and turn it into the source of much of the world’s evil?
You just have to lie, distort, and falsify.
Zinn did all three.
A lifelong and passionate leftist, everything he ever said or wrote was in service of the Marxist dogma that life is a class struggle. Distilled to its essence this simply means that those who have power are bad and those who don’t are good.
Therefore the downtrodden working class, the proletariat, are a heroic, but faceless mass. The villains—the capitalist ruling class—in contrast all have names and faces. They are the heroes of the nation—Washington, Jefferson, Lincoln, Kennedy, and others.
Zinn, as any Marxist true believer would, saw his task to tear down the latter and promote the former.
But is such a simplistic approach really history? Noted liberal historian Arthur Schlesinger didn’t think so. Zinn, Schlesinger wrote, was “a polemicist, not a historian.”
As a polemicist, a propagandist, however, Zinn had few peers.
Columbus turned out to be a perfect target. Before Zinn, Columbus was widely extolled for his foresight and bravery. Now, thanks to Zinn, he’s considered a genocidal maniac.
Zinn takes the explorer’s ship logs and twists them to say the opposite of what Columbus clearly intended. In Zinn’s dishonest rendering, Columbus had contempt for the natives and wanted to enslave them.
Read the explorer’s observations in context and in full, and their true meaning emerges. Columbus had deep respect for the Taino (Zinn calls them the Arawaks) and insisted that his men treat them well. Furthermore, he chronicled how terrified the Taino were of the neighboring tribe, the Caribs. For good reason. The Caribs not only enslaved the Taino (immediately and decisively refuting the idea that Europeans introduced slavery to the New World) but ate them. Yes, they were cannibals.
Much excellent scholarship on Columbus had already been done before Zinn turned the explorer into evil incarnate. Not surprisingly, the picture painted by respected historians like Samuel Eliot Morison was complex. Columbus was not faultless, but neither was the world he discovered a new Eden.
But if you’re preoccupied with propaganda rather than truth, what does it matter? It didn’t for Zinn. His monsters change, but never their motive: more power for the capitalist ruling elite.
Nowhere is this view more clearly expressed than in his discourse, the longest section of the book, on the Vietnam War.
In Zinn’s view, it was just this simple: mighty, imperialist America bad; the North Vietnamese, the fearless peasants, good. That the Communist North Vietnamese slaughtered and tortured tens of thousands of South Vietnamese is not allowed to upset the equation.
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