Westlife – Better Man
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Westlife return with brand new track ‘Better Man’, available to stream/download here:
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How to Stop Others From MISTREATING You, Let Go of TOXIC People \u0026 Heal from BETRAYAL | Najwa Zebian
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More than 70% of people say they have regrets related to their ideal self. If you’re a human, you’ve most likely been in relationships and situations that spark regret, shame and confusion on what to do and who to be in the moment. So often, people spend time trying to please everyone around them. The way you dress, the way you style your hair, where you sit in the meeting, all of these decisions are so easily influenced by a want and desire to be given approval from the right people. But what about you? What do you want? How often are you spending time apologizing for feeling, and even better how often are you downplaying that you even feel anything? Najwa Zebian is an activist, poet and celebrated author. She joins Lisa for a second time to discuss how she came to radical self acceptance, and share the startling fact that we may actually be gaslighting ourselves when we diminish and disregard the pain we feel when vulnerability has been betrayed in the hands of the wrong person.
Najwa’s Questions for SelfAcceptance:
1. Who are you?
2. Why do I believe what I believe?
3. Why do I live my life the way that I do?
4. Why am I scared of X, Y and Z?
5. Why are you so afraid of feeling pain?
“When you build your home and other people you give them the power to make as homeless” Najwa Zebian
SHOW NOTES:
Gaslighting Yourself | Why diminishing your painful experience lessens your selfworth [0:40]
Homeless | How we build homes in others and end up homeless when they walk away [6:37]
Toxic Savior | Trying to save someone doesn’t mean you’re owed anything, that’s toxic [9:47]
Proof of Love | Examining the real cost of having someone love versus what you receive [16:03]
SelfAware | The need to be aware of your triggers and the filter you’ve created for life [19:56]
SelfAcceptance | Selfacceptance versus indifference and know who you’re accepting [25:59]
Identity Crisis | Najwa shares the personal crisis that made her question her identity [33:59]
Being Hurt | Why you need to acknowledge the hurt and know healing in your power [39:30]
Vulnerability | How to be open to vulnerability after being hurt even in protection mode [45:24]
Unwinding Triggers | Finding the origin of your triggers and allow yourself to feel it [51:56]
SelfJudgement | Not blaming or judging yourself for allowing things to happen [55:36]
QUOTES:
“You should never be okay with being treated that badly. You should never be okay with being betrayed. You should never be okay with having someone you trusted so much to turn around and treat you as if you never meant anything to them. You should never be okay with that.” Read by Lisa [0:46]
“Don’t push yourself to a point where you gaslight yourself out of your own pain” [2:09]
“When pain knocks on your door, if you keep it out the door, yeah, it might stay there for a while, but you’re adapting your life to noise in the background.” [5:45]
“The foundation of your home is self acceptance and self awareness. Once you have those two elements, you can build whatever home you want within” [9:23]
“Let me separate what I’ve chosen to give you from what you’ve chosen to reciprocate” [12:47]
“You don’t deserve someone’s burdens to be placed on your back for them to believe that you actually love them.” [17:18]
“Once you become aware of yourself, historically, and in the moment, you’re golden” [25:49]
“The one who broke you cannot heal you. You have to heal you. You can’t expect the person who broke you into pieces to bring those pieces and say I’m gonna put you back together.” [42:32]
“Vulnerability is beautiful, it is what’s needed for connection to happen, but vulnerability […] is being open to injury” [44:14]
“Boundaries aren’t about being in protection mode. Boundaries are about knowing that what you have within is so valuable that you will not allow certain people to come near it or hurt it or whatever. Boundaries stem from self worth.” [48:46]
“The ending itself is not what you need to change, the storyline is what you need to change and that’s in your hands.” [1:01:20]
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2Pac – Only God Can Judge Me
2Pac performing Only God Can Judge Me. From the album All Eyez On Me © 1996 DRR
Lyrics:
Only God can judge me (that right?)
Only God can judge me now
Nobody else (nobody else)
All you other motherfuckers get out my business (really)
Only God can judge me now
[2Pac:]
Perhaps I was blind to the facts, stabbed in the back
I couldn’t trust my own homies, just a bunch of dirty rats
Will I succeed? Paranoid from the weed
And hocus pocus, I try to focus, but I can’t see
And in my mind I’m a blind man doin’ time
Look to my future, ’cause my past is all behind me
Is it a crime to fight for what is mine?
Everybody’s dyin’, tell me what’s the use of tryin’
I’ve been trapped since birth, cautious ’cause I’m cursed
And fantasies of my family in a hearse
And they say it’s the white man I should fear
But it’s my own kind doin’ all the killin’ here
I can’t lie, ain’t no love for the other side
Jealousy inside, make ’em wish I died
Oh my Lord, tell me what I’m livin’ for
Everybody’s droppin’, got me knockin’ on Heaven’s door
And all my memories of seein’ brothers bleed
And everybody grieves, but still nobody sees
Recollect your thoughts, don’t get caught up in the mix
‘Cause the media is full of dirty tricks
[2Pac:]
Only God can judge me
Only God can judge me, only God
Only God can judge me
Only God can judge me
Only God can judge me, only God
Only God can judge me now
Only God can judge me, only God
Only God can judge me
Only God can judge me, only God
Only God can judge me
[Flatline]
[2Pac:]
I hear the doctor standin’ over me, screamin’ I can make it
Got a body full of bullet holes, layin’ here naked
Still I can’t breathe, something’s evil in my IV
‘Cause everytime I breathe I think they killin’ me
I’m havin’ nightmares, homicidal fantasies
I wake up stranglin’, tangled in my bed sheets
I call the nurse ’cause it hurts to reminisce
How did it come to this? I wish they didn’t miss
Somebody help me, tell me where to go from here
‘Cause even thugs cry, but do the Lord care?
Try to remember, but it hurts
I’m walkin’ through the cemetery, talkin’ to the dirt
I’d rather die like a man than live like a coward
There’s a ghetto up in Heaven and it’s ours
\”Black Power!\” is what we scream
As we dream in a paranoid state
And our fate is a lifetime of hate
Dear Mama, can you save me? And fuck peace
‘Cause the streets got our babies, we gotta eat
No more hesitation, each and every black male’s trapped
And they wonder why we suicidal running ’round strapped
Mr. Police, please try to see
That there’s a million motherfuckers stressin’ just like me
[2Pac:]
Only God can judge me
Only God can judge me, only God
Only God can judge me
Only God can judge me
Only God can judge me, only God
Only God can judge me
Only God can judge me
Only God can judge me, only God
Only God can judge me
Only God can judge me now
[2Pac:]
That which does not kill me can only make me stronger
That’s for real
and I don’t see why everybody feel as though
that they gotta tell me how to live my life
You know?
Let me live, baby, let me live
[Rappin’ 4Tay:]
Pac, I feel ya, keep servin’ it on the reala
For instance, say a playa hatin’ mark is out to kill ya
Would you be wrong for buckin’ a nigga to the pavement?
He gon’ get me first, if I don’t get him fool start prayin’
Ain’t no such thing as selfdefense in the court of law
So judge us when we get to where we’re goin wearin’ a cross
That’s real, got him, lurked him, crept the fuck up on him
Sold a half a million tapes, now everybody want him
After talkin’ behind my back like a bitch would
Tellin’ them niggas, \”You can fade him,\” punk I wish you would
It be them same motherfuckers in your face
That’ll rush up in your place to get your safe
Knowin’ you on that paper chase
Grass, glass, big screen and leather couch
My new shit is so fetti, already sold a ki or ounce
Bitch, remember 2Pac and 4Tay
Them same two brothers dodgin’ bullets representin’ the Bay
Pac, when you was locked down
That’s when I’ll be around
Start climbin’ up the charts, so sick, but they tried to clown
That’s why they ride the bandwagon
Still be draggin’ sellin’ lies
Don’t think I don’t see you haters, I know y’all in disguise
[2Pac:]
Guess you figure you know me, ’cause I’m a thug
That love to hit the late night club drink and buzzed
Been livin’ lavish like a player all day
Now I’m bout to floss ’em off, player shit with 4Tay
[2Pac:]
Only God can judge me
Only God can judge me, only God
Only God can judge me
Only God can judge me
Only God can judge me, only God
Only God can judge me
Only God can judge me, only God
Only God can judge me
Only God can judge me
Only God can judge me, only God
Only God can judge me now
Listen to more of Tupac’s greatest hits: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLNvnh4cN6ATAmKzc_YiJW3j9i8hfzTx
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How to FIND YOUR WORTH, Let Go of SHAME and Own Your VALUE | Sarah Jakes Roberts on Women of Impact
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As women, many of us have lived lives with moments that bring us shame, fill our hearts with pain, bitterness, and resentment. The thing is, you don’t have to stay in that mental space with negative thoughts and beliefs that say you’re not worthy, you have no value, or that you’re unlovable. Sarah Jakes Roberts is a woman of faith that breaks the mold and dares to own her scars, be bold, and walk in the truth of all that she is, from every mistake that she no longer allows to define her. She joins me today to help you flip the toxicity of the life you may be holding onto on its head and redefine what it means to create a meal worth serving from your leftovers.
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SHOW NOTES:
Self Worth | Sarah defines her selfworth and share how her flaws add to her value [2:03]
Shame | Ashamed of her truth and deciding what to create with the “leftovers” [4:38]
Leftovers | Sarah exposes the hidden power of creating from what’s left after the struggle [6:30]
Poison | Sarah on purging the insecurities, fear, false confidence, and false positivity [8:06]
Living Divided | Denying part of your truth, avoiding the ruins, and missing your strength [10:14]
Negative Thoughts | How to look at the root of negative thoughts that echo insecurities [12:11]
Relationship Work | Bring value and purpose into the relationship with yourself [17:46]
Marriage | Sarah’s 1st marriage failing was a symptom and that she could do better [20:48]
Walking Away | Sarah on how to leave bad relationships \u0026 questions to ask yourself [24:47]
Incubate Hope | Creating an environment for hope to grow and starving your fears [27:16]
Toxic People | Instead of labeling people as toxic, see that we are all broken [28:28]
Being Hostile | Sarah shares how being petty takes energy and takes away from you [30:13]
Betrayal | Understanding what betrayal communicates to you and knowing it’s about you [34:01]
Inner Circle | Sarah on the value of knowing people’s value and intention for you [38:12]
Success | How success is obedience to the urge and nudge to manifest what’s within [45:27]
QUOTES:
“Selfworth is believing in the value that I bring when I come into a room or space.” [2:31]
“I had to really come to this space where I realized I don’t feel smart, I don’t feel worthy, I don’t feel valuable. This is my truth. And as painful as that was to say, it was also liberating, because I took the whisper that was haunting me and taunting me throughout my life and finally gave it a voice.” [5:57]
“I had my own poison that my insecurities were constantly pumping into my veins that fear was constantly pumping into my veins. And I realized that as long as I was poisoned, I could only attract poison.” [8:16]
“fall more in love with you than you do with the potential outcome that you’re achieving or looking to achieve.” [10:47]
“I realized that just because a thought comes my way doesn’t mean I have to accept it. To accept the thought is to say, I’m going to allow this to now become a part of my truth.” [15:06]
“We’re not qualified to be in a relationship until we realize what I need a person in my life for” [18:08]
“at the end of the day, it’s love that leads us out of places of fear.” [25:03]
When we know that I am betraying myself to be in relationship with someone, then I have to ask myself, what am I receiving to them that is so valuable, that I am willing to betray myself?” [25:22]
“I spend so much mental real estate thinking about what I want to go wrong with someone that I don’t have time to consider what I want to go well with my own spirit and soul.” [31:09]
“Not every person in your family can feed you. Not every person in your family can help you promote growth, and to create an environment for you to incubate hope. Some people are blowing your candle out while you’re trying to get the flame going.” [38:23]
“The truth is, I’m afraid, but I’m going to dare to believe anyway. The truth is, I’m not qualified, but I’m gonna dare to go after it anyway.” [41:41]
More About Sarah: In 2017, Sarah launched Woman Evolve a ministry that focuses on incubating every woman to her fullness. Since its conception Woman Evolve has been successful at reaching and guiding thousands of women to awaken healing, wholeness, and love for themselves and others.
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Podcast: https://www.womanevolve.com/podcast
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