[Update] ‘-ing’ or ‘to’? Everything you need to know (part one: after verbs) | verb + ing – NATAVIGUIDES

This is part 1 of a series of posts on “-ing” and “to,” a.k.a. gerund and infinitive. Click here for part 2.

So you know how to talk about the past in English. (He met a giraffe yesterday.) You know the difference between talking about general actions (I take my giraffe for a walk every day) and actions happening right now (I’m feeding the giraffe right now — I’ll call you back). You can talk about plans in the future (I’m going to visit a giraffe house tomorrow) and predictions in the future (There won’t be many giraffes in the pub at 10 o’clock).

So you can use most of the tenses.

But only the “main” verb (usually the first verb) in a sentence changes because of the tense. What if there are two verbs in the sentence?

If a verb isn’t the first verb in a sentence, then it’s probably* an “-ing” verb (I love eating chocolate), a “to verb” (I forgot to send that letter) or verb 3 (I haven’t ridden a camel).

*Nothing is 100% in English!

I want to share a simple trick with you that will help you decide whether to use “-ing” or “to verb.” This trick is universal, but today let’s look at how it works after verbs (V).

What’s the trick that can solve the verb + “-ing” or “to” problem?

OK? It’s actually that simple:

• Verb + “to verb” is pushing to the future. This means that it’s abstract (not “real”) and that means it can feel “philosophical.” It’s usually a goal (not a process).
• Verb + “-ing” is more “real,” based on experience and is usually a process (not a goal).

 

Words are just like people, so let’s imagine what they look like:

The “to man” is always thinking about goals. He plans and considers the future. He’s a thinker, not so much a doer.
But we like him. Before we do something, it’s good to have a plan, right?

The “-ing lady” is all about doing things. She also thinks, like the “to man,” but when she thinks, she’s thinking about the experience, not the result.

OK. Let’s see these guys in action!

“-ing” and “to” after verbs

When you learned about “-ing” and “to” for the first time, it was probably in a situation something like this:

He wants to make a massive cake.

He enjoys making massive cakes.

We use “to verb” after “want” and  “-ing” after “enjoy.” Some verbs take “to” (want to do), some verbs take “-ing” (enjoy doing).

I often get the question, “How do we know which verbs take ‘-ing’ and which verbs take ‘to’?” and for many years, I told my students “you just have to learn it.”

I was wrong (it happens!). There is actually a system. We just need to ask ourselves, “Is this a ‘to man’ verb or an ‘ing lady’ verb?”

This works with most verbs.

Pushing to the future:

He hoped to buy a box for his massive cake.

I’m planning to visit Mongolia next spring.

Do you need to meet him soon?

Feeling the experience:

Imagine travelling the world in a hot air balloon! Awesome!

I miss being a kid. I had so much fun.

Have you ever dreamt of flying?

Tricky bit #1:

As I’m sure you know, some verbs (e.g. like, love, hate and prefer) can be followed by either “-ing” or “to.”

What’s the difference?

When we say “Alper likes watching people skiing,” we’re focusing on Alper’s enjoyment when he watches people skiing. It’s about the experience. It’s more human.

When we say “Alper likes to watch people skiing,” we’re focusing on describing Alper’s habits and routines. It’s not a feeling. It’s more scientific.

Have a look at these examples. Why is the first example “-ing” and the second “to”?

I like walking along the beach in summer.

I like to go to the dentist twice a year.

Tricky bit #2:

Some other verbs can take either “-ing” or “to,” but the meaning changes.

Let’s look at these verbs one by one.

Stop + “-ing” or “to”

Look at this picture:

Here’s what happened before this picture:
Judy was skiing. Then Judy saw Alper. Judy stopped because she wanted to talk to Alper. (They’re old friends.) So, Judy stopped one thing (the experience). Why? Because she wanted to do another thing (pushing to the future):

Judy stopped skiing. Why? She stopped to talk to Alper.

We stop doing an action to do something else.

Remember + “-ing” or “to”

Let’s look at “to man” and “-ing lady” again. Who do you think is more nostalgic? Who do you think is more organized?

“-ing lady” is more nostalgic because she spends more time thinking about experiences. “To man” is more organised — he thinks about plans!

Here’s a picture of “-ing lady” being nostalgic and “to man” being organised:

When we remember doing something, we’re looking back at the past.

When we remember to do something, we’re planning for the future. It means “not to forget.”

Try + “-ing” or “to”

The verb “try” is all about finding a solution to your problem. When you have a problem, you have one ultimate goal: “How can I solve this problem?”

Here’s Amanda with her problem. (We don’t know what the problem is — it’s personal!)

She’s looking into the future to the point in time when her problem is solved.

To get there what does she need to do?

That’s right! The problem is in the future, so “to man” will help her here — she’s going to try to solve her problem.

But there are lots of things she can do to solve the problem. Some of them will work. Some won’t. But she needs to try, right?

As you can see, these are the actions she needs to do to solve the problem. To solve her problem, Amanda must try asking her mother, or try paying the giraffe.

So:

• If you try to do something, you focus on the whole problem. It’s the ultimate goal.
• If you try doing something, you try one method to solve the whole problem.

 

Tricky bit #3:

So far (until now) we’ve looked at how “to man” and “-ing lady” work when we want to use two verbs in the same sentence.

Here’s Anna:

In this example who’s doing the “wanting” and who’s doing the “eating”? That’s right! It’s Anna! It’s all Anna!

But what if she’s doing the “wanting” and she wants someone else, maybe Elvis Presley (who really liked eating), to do the “eating”?

We need to add Elvis to the sentence, right? How do we do that? Well, let’s start with the sentence from before:

Anna wants to eat all the cakes.

There’s only one person in this sentence (Anna), because Anna is doing the wanting and Anna is doing the eating. But when she wants Elvis to do the eating, we put him in front of that verb:

This works the same with “-ing” or with “to.” Just put the new person (Elvis) in front:

I want to relax! And I want Elvis to relax.

A strange thing

Finally, here’s a strange thing.

When we use the verb “need” followed by the passive:

It needs to be cooked.

…we can replace the passive infinitive part “to be cooked” with a gerund:

It needs cooking.

Here are some more examples:

This house is filthy and needs cleaning.

Yeah, you can use my bike, but the tyre needs pumping.

This is a little strange because we’re using an active verb for a passive action. But that’s English! As I’m sure you know by now, English is not 100% regular.

So, as you can see, although there are different ways to use “-ing” and “to,” they usually follow the general rule:

• “to” is pushing to the future!
• “-ing” is about the experience!

We’re going to meet these lovely people again in part 2.

If you have any questions about the “to man” and the “-ing lady,” please leave a comment and I’ll try to help you out!

Trong bài thi TOEIC Reading, có một phần không thể thiếu đó chính là bài điền từ hoặc cụm từ để hoàn thành câu. Tuy nhiên, trong nhiều trường hợp, các bạn hay gặp khó khăn không biết lựa chọn dạng động từ V-ing hay to-V, và để mất điểm rất đáng tiếc. Vậy nên hôm nay, bạn hãy cùng Jaxtina tìm hiểu về các động từ theo sau bởi V-ing, To Verb hoặc cả V-ing và To Verb nhé!

1. Động từ theo sau bởi “V-ing”.

Động từ

Nghĩa tiếng Việt

Động từ

Nghĩa tiếng Việt

acknowledge

hiểu biết

resent

bực bội

admit

thừa nhận

resist

kháng cự

allow

cho phép

advise

khuyên

avoid

tránh

appreciate

đánh giá

complete

hoàn thành

can’t help

không thể chịu được

delay

trì hoãn

consider

cân nhắc

detest

ghét

deny

từ chối

escape

chạy trốn

enjoy

thích

involve

liên quan

excuse

tha lỗi

mind

lưu ý

finish

hoàn thành

miss

nhớ

forbid

cấm

postpone

trì hoãn

imagine

tưởng tượng

practice

luyện tập

resume

tóm tắt

quit

dừng

risk

gây nguy hiểm

recall

gợi lại

suggest

gợi ý

report

báo cáo

tolerate

khoan dung

 

Ví dụ:

He

admits stealing

the bike.

✓

He

admits to steal

the bike.

 

2. Động từ theo sau bởi “To Verb”.

Động từ

Nghĩa tiếng Việt

Động từ

Nghĩa tiếng Việt

agree

đồng ý

decide

quyết định

appear

xuất hiện

deserve

xứng đáng

arrange

sắp xếp

expect

hy vọng

ask

hỏi

fail

trượt

be able

có khả năng

get

có

beg

cầu xin

hesitate

chần chừ

choose

lựa chọn

hope

hy vọng

hurry

khẩn trương

plan

lên kế hoạch

intend

có ý định

prepare

chuẩn bị

neglect

từ chối

promise

hứa

offer

mời

propose

đề xuất

persuade

thuyết phục

refuse

từ chối

request

yêu cầu

want

muốn

start

bắt đầu

wish

ước

 

Ví dụ:

He

decides to buy

the cake.

✓

He

decides buying

the cake.

 

3. Động từ đi với cả “V-ing” và “to Verb”.

Động từ

Nghĩa tiếng Việt

Động từ

Nghĩa tiếng Việt

attempt*

cố gắng

need*

cần

begin

bắt đầu

prefer

thích hơn

continue

tiếp tục

regret*

hối hận

forget*

quên

remember*

nhớ

keep

giữ

start

bắt đầu

like

thích

stop*

dừng

love

yêu

try*

cố gắng

 

: Những từ chứa dấu * sẽ thay đổi nghĩa khi sử dụng V-ing hay To Verb theo sau.

Ví dụ:

Remember to turn off the light, Lisa!

Lisa remembers turning off the light.

Nếu bạn muốn tìm hiểu chi tiết hơn về các động từ theo sau bởi cả “V-ing” và “to Verb”, hãy ghé qua bài viết: Các động từ theo sau có to to V của Jaxtina nhé!

Practice 1. Choose the correct answers.

1. I can’t help _______ when he sings the song “Baby Shark”.

A. laughing                   B. to laugh                      C. to laughing

2. He agreed ______ this house.

A. buying                      B. to buy                         C. to buying

3. The plants need ______.

A. watering                   B. to water                       C. to watering

4. Anna denied ______ the meeting.

A. joining                       B. to join                          C. to joining

5. I hope ______ a good result in the final exam.

A. getting                       B. to get                           C. to getting

Xem đáp án

1. A. laughing
   “

   I

   can’t help laughing

   when he sings the song “Baby Shark”.”

   Nghĩa là

2. B. to buy
   “

   He

   agreed to buy

   this house.”

   Nghĩa là

3. A. watering
   “

   The plants

   need watering

   .”

   Nghĩa là

4. A. joining
   “

   Anna

   denied joining

   the meeting.”

   Nghĩa là

5. B. to get
   “

   I

   hope to get

   a good result in the final exam.”

   Nghĩa là

 

Practice 2. Fill in the blanks with the correct form of the verbs.

1. Before leaving the office, I told Anna: “Anna, don’t forget

   ______ lights and fans.

2. He enjoys

   _______ Korean films.

3. You should avoid

   _______ mistakes again.

4. Lia prefers

   _____ out with friends to

   ______ at home.

5. They choose

   _______ house instead of going to play outside.

Xem đáp án

1. to turn off
   “

   Before leaving the office, I told Anna: “Anna,

   don’t forget to turn off

   lights and fans.”

   Nghĩa là

2. watching
   “

   He

   enjoys watching

   Korean films.”

   Nghĩa là

3. making
   “

   You should

   avoid making

   mistakes again.”

   Nghĩa là

4. going – staying
   “

   Lia

   prefers going

   out with friends to

   staying

   at home.”

   Nghĩa là

5. to clean
   

   “They

   choose to clean

   house instead of going to play outside.”

   Nghĩa là

 

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